Wednesday, January 16, 2019

If you want to be a better parent



Parental role is the most important role in child's physical and psychosocial progression. Some say, 'What is the nature of parents', 'Parents mean mothers'? This is not scientific. Depending on the behavior and attitude of the child, the nature of parents can be divided into many categories.


All parents want children to be happy But in fulfilling their desire that they do not always go on the right path, rather than knowing their own well-being, they may sometimes interfere with the development of the child. Parental behavior When the child is young, he thinks of eating, sleeping, fever-flop. But when the child grows up, the thought buds grow bigger. Who is he meeting with the school? How are you friends He is in the grip of addiction? Do not be afraid to let her go with her friends, or even ask her parents.

Parents and children should be able to handle this time with great care. But they have to be prepared for this, but soon after the birth of the child. Which is called 'good parenting' or the ideal strategy to raise a child. What can you do if you want to be a really good parent?


 What to do if you want to be a good parent

* Express your love for your child. He does not like it, but he does not reveal it.

* Listen to the child's words with great importance. Do not disdain him.

* 'Quality time' day. That is, whatever time he is with him, only give him the time.

* Make success with success as well as accepting failure in life. Do not scoff at his failure. Celebrate the child's small achievements.

* Refrain from making any crime or criminal side in front of him. To teach him morality, parents will not tell them to lie, do not break the laws and rules (for example, do not go to the car opposite the street, do not try to break in front of the lift or break the pay line)


* Do not make unnecessary pressure on him - 'you have to do it', do not give him such a target.

* Do not beat him in any way, do not scold him, explain it to him.

* Do not compare the child to anyone else, do not doubt him unnecessarily

* Do not keep an eye on secret, please talk directly to him.

* Praise him for his good work, do not care about it for a stage if you do not like it.

* Play different games with a child with Carom or Ludus. At least one day a week, everyone is going to visit the family. Ensure child participation in social events.

* Limit the use of child's mobile phone or tab. Reduce the use of social media in your mobile phone or tab if necessary.

* Everyone in the family can eat at least one meal together. Encourage your child to eat in your own hands. She will not feed her on the plea by eating it less.Never give the same orders or instructions to the child.


* Give importance to his friends. Encourage you to mix with good friends. But keep a clear idea of ​​who he is going with, who is spending night at his home.

* Let school children read school school. You do not memorize his reading books. Let's decorate the book-bag of the school. She should take her own self away from school. Refrain from closing his book-bag, reading the school does not collect you.

* Refrain from criticizing a senior member or his teacher in front of a child. Parents do not scoff or condemn each other, do not get involved in the argument.

* Provide concepts in terms of physical changes and safety by age.

* If you have any changes or abnormalities in child behavior, consult a psychologist or psychiatrist.


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